Relational healing & inner regulation for women ready to expand — without losing themselves.

Guide for coherence + leadership in life and business & founder of Gut-Heart-Mind Alignment Method.

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Find Coherence & Confidence in Your Life, Work & Leadership — Without Hustle or Noise

I help women, mothers, and purpose-driven leaders build a stable income, rooted identity, and aligned life rhythm through mentorship and embodied strategy. - Paula De La Selva

Start with The Clarity Code

Why my work is different:

Coherence & Leadership Mentorship

  • Most personal growth focuses on mindset or behavior.
    My work starts with regulation.

  • When your gut, heart, and mind are aligned, clarity becomes natural.

  • Communication gets simpler.

  • Boundaries feel clean.

  • Relationships stop draining your energy.

    This is not theory.
    This is embodied relational skill-building.

My work centers on Expansive Love and the art of being witnessed—because feeling seen changes everything.

Together, we walk a path through my Gut-Heart-Mind Alignment method for life-lasting change, personal development and growth.

Start your journey

Start here: The Clarity Code™
An embodied relational healing experience

The Clarity Code™ is an embodied relational healing experience designed to help you understand your emotional triggers, communicate your needs clearly, and respond from presence instead of reactivity.

This is the foundation of my work.

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The Gut–Heart–Mind Alignment™ Method

A holistic, cyclical framework that restores coherence between digestion, emotions, and thoughts — so your system starts working with you, not against you.

Gut — how safety, instinct, and digestion affect your emotional responses

Heart — how attachment, needs, and boundaries shape relationships

Mind — how awareness and language turn triggers into conscious choice

This method integrates modern science with ancient wisdom, and structure with intuition.
It is designed for women who are tired of pushing, fixing, or overriding themselves — and are ready to live, lead, and create from alignment.

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My Signature Porgrams

  • Gut-Heart-Mind Alignment Program

    The Alchemy of Connection 12-Weeks Program

    A 12-week mentorship to stabilize your income, reclaim your energy, and build a grounded life and business rhythm — without burnout.

  • Cacao Ceremony Facilitator Course

    Join a transformative journey experiencing the medicine of cacao, learning its origins, effect, preparation and how to craft a ceremony in an ethical & authentic way.

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    Hypnobirthing Masterclass for Busy Couples

    Gentle guidance for women navigating pregnancy, birth or mothering, with conscious presence and care.

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    Retreat Leader

    Elevate your retreat with my tailor-made workshops and Cacao ceremonies. Including: somatic dance, breathwork, ritual spaces — to soften, open, heal and reconnect.

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Why Alignment Matters

When the gut is dysregulated, the nervous system stays on high alert.
When emotions are suppressed or unexpressed, the heart closes.
When the mind tries to control without listening, clarity disappears.

Most approaches address only one layer.

Gut–Heart–Mind Alignment™ works across all three — at the same time.

By nourishing the body, repairing emotional coherence, and redesigning the mind’s role, we create change that is:

  • embodied, not forced

  • cyclical, not linear

  • sustainable, not exhausting

This is a path of devotion and possibility: embodied, coherent, and consistent.

If you’re ready to reconnect with your truth, align your life with your values, and lead from your own rhythm —
I’m here to walk beside you.

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Lovely reviews from my amazing clients

  • Retreat in Algarve

    Paula has run cacao and dance workshops at my retreats and was an absolute highlight for my guests. She has an amazing positive energy, beautiful open communication and a gentle spirit that creates a wonderful safe container for groups to explore movement, emotional and mental states and joy. I highly recommend Paula and very much look forward to working with her again in March!

    Becca Spooner

  • Business Coaching

    Paula is incredible and has helped me in many ways  — including coaching, marketing and communication for my small business! Grateful for her and highly recommend her to others.

    Katie King

  • Hypnobirthing Masterclass For Couples

    I joined with my partner to Paula’s birth preparation private masterclass and it was truly beautiful! She has such a calming presence and I felt instantly at ease. I left feeling empowered, peaceful, and with so many valuable tools for the big event! So grateful for her guidance! 🤍 100% recommended!

    Teresa Martín Gilabert

  • Cacao Ceremony

    A truly wonderful and supporting experience. On my holiday in Portugal last May I did my first cacao ceremony with Paula. It was a very intimate and beautiful circle. It was there that my intrest in cacao was fuelled. Afterwards I followed a online one on one course where she taught me the art of preparing and serving cacao. Paula is a gentle and loving person who guides you through your personal proces with breathwork, cacao and another range of tools she masters. Very thankful I ran into her and her practice.

    Tiny Devriendt

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